I thought I'd share the results of my weekend experiment.
I love posting pictures here because everyone is so kind and supportive but I've always wondered what people outside our community would think of my image. Would they read me right away? Would knowing I'm a CD change their opinion of my looks?
On a whim, I posted my picture (the one you see at left) on Hot or Not. In my little greeting, I mentioned that I was "just your average crossdresser" and that I wasn't looking for anything other than opinions on my impersonation of the female form.
Well I got opinions, all right. I was promptly rewarded with a 5.2 out of 10 after about 40 votes. Some people even gave me 1s, 2s and 3s. Were these low votes from guys disgusted to find I was a crossdresser? Catty girls? Or am I just not doing my makeup very well?
To find out, I re-wrote my greeting and made no mention of being a crossdresser. I simply said I was looking for friends. Interestingly, my rating rocketed to 7.5 within a day after a couple hundred votes. I was even getting 10s!
While this was a nice ego stroke, it was disheartening to see the obvious lack of acceptance for Cindy the CD. At least that's what I decided it was. Hopefully it was mostly macho/immature people who burst my bubble so early in my little experiment. I actually did receive a couple 9s even when I was open about being a CD, so not everyone was nasty. I guess it's no surprise that there are good and bad people out there and that's what this basically comes down to. Not an earth-shattering conclusion but it was a fun and interesting test. Try it sometime!
Cindy