My wife tolerates my crossdressing and in her words "If I don't have to think about it, it doesn't bother me." But, she will occasionaly make jokes or a funny remark at parties or at friends about crossdressing and usually I am the one who would be doing it. I don't think I'm upset that she does it, as everyone usually laughs it off and I will play along. However, will our friends start to wonder if it keeps up?
In a way I like that she does this, as she indirectly acknowledges my crossdressing and I get to have the bonus of dreaming of dressing for a moment or two (in public). I realize this is probably a passive aggressive way of her coming to terms with it (still after 17 years) and I would rather have an open discussion with her, but it seems like one of the only ways she will acknowledge my dressing.
I am torn between asking her to stop and just letting her cope via these little quips.
Do any other SO's do something like this?
Mercedes XOXOXO