Hi all:
First of all I just want to say that I'm not really a member of the forum. I just wanted to be able to post something under my own account and not that of my dad's.
You see, my father is a member here and he has only been aware that I've known about his crossdressing for six weeks or so. I've known for many years now. My mother told me when I was curious one day and found some of his clothing in her closet. She told me everything, but made me promise never to tell anybody about it, even dad. And I never did until I moved back home again and I thought he would be happy if he knew that I knew and that he could dress up if he wanted to. By the way, it's just me and my father now because my mother died a couple years after I found out. I have a brother and a sister, but neither one knows and they live pretty far away.
My problem is that dad doesn't like talking about this stuff to me and even though he answers any questions I have, he doesn't give me good answers. He also, naturally, doesn't let me see him dress, but that part is okay with me because I think it would be pretty weird anyway. I just want him to be happy because he is really my best friend and we can talk about everything and anything for hours on end about everything else in the world but this.
What I want is opinions about how I can get my dad to talk to me about this stuff. I have read alot of things he has written here, but I haven't read to much about what he really feels. He just tells me that this is the way he feels, but he doesn't say anything else.
I'm sorry this is long and maybe a little confusing, but I really don't want to embarrass him, because he is really very sweet and I don't want hurt him. I just want to try to understand him a little better and to find a way to talk about these things without making him uncomfortable.
By the way, dad knows I have come here and read some things and seen some of his pictures, but he doesn't really like it.
Any ideas?