My Webster’s Universal Unabridged Dictionary defines hypocrite as follows:
Hyp’o-crite, n [Gr.hypokrites, one who answers, plays a part, a pretender, from hypokrinesthai, to answer, play a part, hypo, under, and krinesthai, to dispute, contend.] one who feigns to be what he is not; especially, one who pretends to be pious, virtuous, etc. without really being so.
My Random House Dictionary of the English Language defines hypocrite this way:
Hyp-o-crite, n. a person who pretends to have desirable or publicly approved attitudes, beliefs, principles, etc. he does not actually possess. [ME ipocrite < OF < LL hypocrite(a) < Gk hypokritites stage actor, hence one who pretends to be what he is not. ---Syn. deceiver, pretender, pharisee.
Webster’s New Collegiate Dictionary simply says:
Hyp-o-crite, n. one who affects qualities he does not have.
I was questioning myself and my relationship to CD’s when this word came to my mind. I wanted to know if I am a dictionary definition of a hypocrite because even though I come to this site and offer my support and encouragement, I don’t march, carry banners, go to alternative style bars and parties and I have never told my dad or the rest of my family that I have been with CD’s. I suppose I could be called a closeted supporter but in the eyes of my CD friends, but does that mean I am a hypocrite? A hypocrite because I “pretend to have desirable or publicly approved attitudes, beliefs, principles, etc that I do not actually possess?”
But then the dictionary definitions raised more questions than answers in my mind about crossdressers in general. Are all CD’s considered hypocrites because they pretend, or feign to be women when they are not? I am not a CD but I know I pretend to be pious and virtuous to my co-workers and family. Do you?
I am confused and would appreciate any ideas. Am I missing something in my understanding of this inward spiral of definitions?
Am I a hypocrite?
Are you a hypocrite?
Are none of us hypocrites?
Should we just throw the dictionaries in the trash?