I'm with you, I don't want to be a female. I just like wearing womens clothes. In the future, I don't intend on going out dressed or transitioning. Crossdressing is just fun for me.
I'm with you, I don't want to be a female. I just like wearing womens clothes. In the future, I don't intend on going out dressed or transitioning. Crossdressing is just fun for me.
I am not sure what you mean by the drag thing, are you talking about a full female presentation, or are you talking about way out stage stuff?
I have seen a lot of Karren's pictures, and none of them look like a drag thing to me. now if you are talking about make-up, wigs, and shoes, with that dress, then yes, like Karren, I love that drag thing!!!!!
If I have a lot to do, I can be happy, with just a pair of panties, or a skirt, but there is nothing like going the whole distance, head to toe!
Tina B.
For years I was like you. I never really wanted to dress from the waist up. I didn't want to BE a girl.
All I ever really wished for in an ideal world was to be able to go out wearing hose, heels and a skirt and just be a guy from the waist on up. I longed to show off my legs and feel the warm sun on my pantyhosed legs while the girls admired my legs.
I rarely ventured out compared to other CD's, but over the years I slowly changed. I didn't feel complete without the total transformation.
Though I now still struggle with makeup, I love dressing in women's clothes from head to toe because it makes me feel so elegant.
I feel the outfit is not complete without a top and wig and makeup.
It's sort of like learning to appreciate a kind of music or fine wine. Sometimes it takes a while to tap into the core feelings or essence of what it's all about.
I've discovered that it's an attitude or state of mind. Not one of sexuality, as in my younger days, but of a calm, cool and collected elegance.
When I dress as a man, I just don't feel as polished in my attire even though I feel I look nice. Dressed as a woman, I somehow embody the essence of confidence and elegance of all those beautiful mom's and business women I grew up seeing.
Sure it's all a state of mind.
I don't relate to the word 'drag' because it suggests to me an over-the-top and theatrical appearance. I like to dress entirely in women's clothes but I would say in a fairly restrained style. I guess I am trying to look like the femme version of myself rather than somebody else.
Because what it's about for me is expressing my feminine self whilst retaining my identity.
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By Drag I mean make up, heels, wigs, that sort of thing.
LOVE YA!
If you enjoy it you should do it.
I don't think I'm accomplished enough at my presentation to be a Queen. maybe I could be considered a drag princess, duchess or countessa.
I'm just an old lump of coal, but I'm gonna be a diamond one day.
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Well, I only have femme jeans. And I wear those to work everyday. Not the one's with sequins or embroidery, just plain denim. And on occasion I'll wear a femme top but it's fairly adnrogenous. If I were to wear a skirt I'd just go all the way. But probably not at work. Those sailors can be a bit over testosteroned for that. Civil service isn't always civil.
Yeah, I like to mix and match, maybe a skirt with a regular t-shirt, especially hanging around the house in the summer, with hose or tights in winter, or sleepwear. I don't do makeup, too much work for me. And I don't have the dedication to practice enough to look decent - I have had it done a couple of times professionally in the past, for the fun and pampering and to see how good I could look, but lost interest when I tried to do it myself. I also don't do padding or breastforms - although, when it comes to shaping what I would probably need more is waist-cinching or corsetting!
I just wear a few femme items. I have no time for make-up or anything, just no patience.
I only have a few cheap starter items right now to see if it's right for me, but just ordered a couple of tailor made items. Thats about as far as I'll go, though I might buy a wig.
I know that I would never 'pass', and Im not trying to convince anyone else that I'm femme, so I feel no need to go further.
The time thing is a HUGE factor for me. I just don't know how some people do it. With my schedule, it's nearly impossible.
An outing, even to a local store, is a major planning event. Coordinate the outfit, shave all over ( that is exhausting, though I do love it), get dressed, pray that no one in the neighborhood sees me!!! On and on.
Most of the time, I just wear a few items around the house while I fold laudry and do the bed.
I love wearing hose and heels while I wash my wife's nylons....mmm...mmm...cintilating. How do you spell that word??? :-)
Last edited by Charlene Ogden; 08-22-2008 at 04:10 PM.
I just like hose and heels and a dress. Once in a while I use breast forms but not all the time. I would like to try some makeup some time but it seems to tedious to do all the time. I'll have to see. But I can't stand womens panties and I have no desire for femme sleep-wear or anything else like that. I do it for the clothes and the way they feel more than for the way they make me feel.
Remember: You are unique. Just like veryone else
i my self only dress in clothes .i dont feel the need to full dress .i keep trying to make this point that not all crossdressers have to fulldress and take on female rolls .
I just wear the more feminine casual clothes I love the look and they fit right.Love the colors too.
I do some femme jewlery tho' bracelets rings.
I just look like what I am a sissy man with a mustache.Thats me alright.
Don't get me wrong, I love dressing fully and enjoying an evening out and about. But many nights when I am home I will just be wearing a cute night shirt, or a teddy, or sometimes just a bra and panty set, just to relax lounging around the house.
Love From Your Sister Michelle
Flowers are for the Heart, the Mind, and the Soul
Yes. I do just dress for the feel and enjoyment of it. I am not passable on any level. Haha But, my G/F totally enjoys helping me dress and also buys clothes for/with me. We even buy shoes and boots for me. It is fun. She has even started buying make up for me and applying it.
When I dress i am marny which is most of the time. No drag queen here!
I dress because I enjoy the feminine feeling and love the way I look fully dressed. I consider a drag queen to be an over-the-top theatrical style dresser that dresses to stand out rather to blend in. I take pride in doing my makeup, wearing my wig, and dressing to blend in (even if I don't go out). While simply wearing clothing is ok, for me, I would simply feel like a man in a skirt or nightshirt and that isn't the fem feeling I'm after. If that makes me a drag queen, then I guess I'm a drag queen and a drama queen
I have learned that we all have our own level which we like to take things to. Personally, I don't (and never have) feel the need to use make up or wear a wig.
I just love the feel of a dress or skirt, that does it for me. I am very lucky living in Brisbane, Australia. We are just sub tropical, great weather all year round for a cute summer dress or mini skirt!
For me I like the whole experience of the clothes and make-up, but I don't get to do it as often as I would like so I underdress all the time and sleeep en-femme always. I'd go full time if my wife could live with it, but she can't so I'll be in the closet till death do us part.
Yes that is me. I love the clothes and don't try to look like a woman particularly. I can spent ages getting dressed up but don't bother with make up unless I'm taking pictures. If I have only a short while and I feel the urge, only one item is enough to turn me on I don't even know if I feel feminine when dressed, I just feel incredibly sexy with a kind of heightened awareness of how I look.
Peace through superior dress sense..
Ditto. I want to come out of the closet and look like a woman in public and use a ladies public restroom with her, but that is not realistic. For now. I underdress every day; see my post in For Those Who Underdress... thread ob 6/6/2008. I keep pushing, and hope that she'll accept going out with me when I am presenting as a woman. Now I need a Haloween or other "excuse".