To those in the closet, and those who were in the closet...
Did you ever go so far to the other side to protect it? What I mean is over-masculinity? Sometimes I don't shave for weeks and resemble Abe Lincoln... one of my ways of going so far in the other direction to avoid suspicion.
Or when a girl mentions something about make-up or other such things, even as a joke to me, I might rudely answer "I don't know a thing about that kind of stuff." Sometimes when I am in a good mood, I joke with them. I just get a paranoid feeling sometimes.
The worst moment I had was at my karate school one time. There was a little residue nail polish on my toes. One of the women in the adult class asked me how I got bloody toes(red polish). I asked her why she was looking at my bloody toes, in a joking tone.
She said "Well, its either that or nail polish that wasn't completely cleaned."
I became so scared and paranoid I rudely said "I think I'm more likely to have bloody toes."
I knew she didn't have a clue, but I got so scared I had to say something. Anyone else ever go to such lengths to hide the truth?