Bridged
First of all, a big thank you for being so open, and supportive of your husband.
For me, I am a softer and gentler person when dressed. There is a very strong emotional feeling, together with the attraction of the style and the fabrics. It is a feeling of just being so alive and at the same time there's a great calmness (the balance between them varies, with one sometimes stronger than the other). It's so unlike the expectation of society for the male to be aggressive and competitive.
It is somehow like having another dimension to who your are, still conscious that it is you but in a very different and fulfilling way. It just seems right.
Let you both be there for each other.
Susan