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    Why do you want to be a guy?

    For FTMs - why do you want to be a guy? Details!

    I'm the other way around and wish I was a beautiful woman! I'd love everything about being a woman, and the clothes are so beautiful compared to mens clothes!

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    I don't want to be anything. I just am.

    I want people to recognize the person that I am. I want people to understand that I don't want to be treated like a girl/woman. I want people to understand that my sexual orientation is not straight, especially if I'm dating men.

    I just want people to let me be me, without acting like I'm doing something wrong.
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    Like Cai said, want has nothing to do with it. I'm a man, always have been always will be, regardless of my pysiology, regardless of what position I take in sociaty.

    And a 'please' wouldn't hurt, you know.
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    i dont want to be a man, i AM a man

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    I don't want to be a man either. I don't want to be trans, or want to go through the struggles of the whole transition process. I just have to because it's who I am, and trying not to be is trying to be something I'm not.
    Story of my life –>

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    Hammering the point home:
    This is not the life I would've chosen, if I could've chosen it. Maybe. I'm not sure. I've learned a lot, I've met people I never would've met otherwise. People I really care for.
    But, I don't WANT to be a man. There's no desire involved here. Plain and simple, I AM a man.
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    Um... I gotta get to the bottom line though...

    Is it because you guys are fascinated with and want a real penis?

    For me, I'm fascinated by and want a real vagina and good sized tits too! Plus look good looking!

    Maybe we're all envying what's on the other side!

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    ....... I'm sorry, but did you actually read what we said?

    and for me, the 'other side' is women. Cos' I really aint one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Um... I gotta get to the bottom line though...
    We already told you the bottom line.


    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Is it because you guys are fascinated with and want a real penis?
    No.


    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    For me, I'm fascinated by and want a real vagina and good sized tits too! Plus look good looking!
    Good for you.


    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Maybe we're all envying what's on the other side!
    No.


    Quote Originally Posted by John View Post
    ....... I'm sorry, but did you actually read what we said?



    Kate, we don't want any of it, it's just who we are.



    [SIZE="1"](I'm not speaking for everyone here, only out of the responses so far.) [/SIZE]
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    Famed for having no equal Alan's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Um... I gotta get to the bottom line though...
    Read instead what we're saying.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Is it because you guys are fascinated with and want a real penis?
    No.

    I mean, yes, I want a penis, but only because it feels like I should have one. It's not because I have some weird Electra-like fixation on the male organ.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    For me, I'm fascinated by and want a real vagina and good sized tits too! Plus look good looking!
    Good for you. That has nothing to do with us being men.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Maybe we're all envying what's on the other side!
    I don't envy women, thank you very much.


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    Quote Originally Posted by KateSpade83 View Post
    Um... I gotta get to the bottom line though...

    Is it because you guys are fascinated with and want a real penis?

    For me, I'm fascinated by and want a real vagina and good sized tits too! Plus look good looking!

    Maybe we're all envying what's on the other side!
    No, Kate. This is not about a penis. Regardless of what society seems to think, manliness is not determined by the size of your equipment. (Neither is womanhood determined by the size of your breasts or your ability to have penetrative sex, by the way.)
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    them as has no voices.’ - Terry Pratchett, The Wee Free Men

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    I dont want to be a man. I am a man. Always have been sense I was ten. And I finally found out what it was called at the age of 18. I dont get out much you see. And Its very hard to learn about this stuff in a mormon household cause they dont approve. But, like I said I am a man. And nothings gonna change that. Id rather be happy as someone Im supposed to be then to be miserable as this half alien half girl thing ma-bob. Heh.. Im a man and nothing can stop me from fulfilling my dreams. Not even my family... Well, I.. I dont know 'bout that.

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    It's not a matter of "want". I already am a man.
    I am merely changing my body to reflect that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xTwo_Of_Heartsx View Post
    It's not a matter of "want". I already am a man.
    I am merely changing my body to reflect that.
    [SIZE="3"]Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are. ~ Unknown[/SIZE]

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