Sweety...Miss...WTF?

[Sally2005]

I get a different responses sometimes. In drab, I generally look a lot younger than I am. Sometimes I get sweetie or the other person talks down to me in some way, at work people have told me that I don't look like I sound like on the phone. I have yet to figure out a great response, other than to say, watch it, I'm probably older than you are kid. What people say could be related to who they are, how they feel or how you look. Doesn't matter too much and you can't change them so just take it as a complement. Also, I get treated nicer as a guy when I look messy and don't shave and when I have longish hair...go figure?

[Zenith]

...As for the behavior of your friend, I can't explain that. Only he can. Either he will on his own or you will have to ask, conjecture will only lead to dead ends and more questions. In the meantime start to figure out if knowledge of your crossdressing is something you want to share and how you will respond if it comes out.
Good luck.

Good advice Sarah...and yup I got the long look up and down my face again today...no trace of makeup left...I do have naturally long eyelashes...but don't get it. It's like I am trying to be placed somehow...

I don't know sweetie, its up to you

I'm gonna hit you with my purse...
Or tie you up with my pantyhose...

[Chiana]

Maybe the simple, direct "Why are you doing that?" when you are alone, might work with this guy.

[Zenith]

Maybe the simple, direct "Why are you doing that?" when you are alone, might work with this guy.

You are very wise, though I might be afraid of the answer..."you look like a lady" or "I recognize you from somewhere on the internet..."

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

My guess?
a) Your friend is a CD/TS in deep denial
b) your friend is a CD/TS fancier in deep denial
or
c) Your friend is closeted or in-denial gay/bi and fancies you as a man and finds the idea of you being effeminate a turn off

Lol I have a "B" possibly "C" friend. Man that guy ticks me off. He sometimes stares at me, gets way too close, tells me what to do a lot...
Sometimes I just want to shout in response to his observations or actions, "I'm not your girlfriend! Get away. Leave my hair and clothes alone."

[marny]

Your Tshirt was over your shoulder. OK. Was your bra strap showing?
This college has picked up the scent but has left it between you and him as far as you indicate. If that is correct and the situation continues that way, he may be more decent than you indicate. He sounds more like the type that would go crow around the office. Since he hasn't maybe you should ask him for a coffee and set things straight, and tell him to lay off the office jokes. A small confrontation can build a lot of respect. Break it down

[Zenith]

Your Tshirt was over your shoulder. OK. Was your bra strap showing?

You girls are killing me...well the nips on my forms were poking up through my T-shirt...can't figure out why the fem vibe..

He sounds more like the type that would go crow around the office.

Bingo! That would be him!

[Angie G]

Be happy hun it makes life more fun.
Angie