I have noticed over the years, and especially since I joined this forum that I spend an inordinate amount of time looking at beautiful women, well all women actually. I don't just mean looking at them either, whenever I'm in a public place, mall, airport, party, whatever, I find my eyes snapping so hard in their direction that I swear they make noise when I do it. I'm afraid my wife will hear them doing it, and she'll think I'm looking for reasons other than I really am.
What I'm looking at, and not necessarily in this order, are her shoes, legs, hose, dress, pants or capris, hair, makeup, eyes, lips, figure, how well she's put together, and then if she's got a great pair of shoes, I try to remember all of the details so that I can find the same pair. I'm not leering at women sexually, at least I don't think I am, but by the same token I am staring just enough to take it all in, and I hope I'm not making them uncomfortable in doing so. I've always wondered, since I've heard that women dress for other women, if, when they notice that I'm looking at them, if they know somethings up, that the thought that they might have a CD looking at them, comes up in their minds, or are they flattered that a male is paying them that kind of attention, or do they immediately think that guys a player.
I do try to be subtle, but I have found that since I admire, and respect women, probably more so because of my CDing, that I just find it incredibly hard to just not look. Anyone else?
Christy