That's my kinda girl Angie,lol, ditto on that.
I'd say have a seat and let me educate you on genetics and how we think they work from what we know today. Then I'd ask for honest questions and dig out of them their thoughts/actions that may be considered scarey to us, or strange to others, and ask them should you be shunned for thinking that way by all of society?
The more people understand cd'ing isn't a choice thing anymore than being straight/ gay or TS is, I think more acceptance and understanding would ensue. I see it happening to those that take the time to get educated.