This evening, just a few minutes ago I emailed my daughter to tell her my secret, that I'm a cross dresser. I've wanted to do this for several months now but something this evening made me tell her.
She called me to tell me about her New girlfriend, which was a slight shock at first to hear about. But I love my daughter and will always love her, I can't judge her and will accept her always. I will accept whoever she decides to be with.
After this phone call I had such a strong desire to reveal my Cross dressing to her that I sent her an email. It has been sent, with pictures etc and a link to this site for her to visit. I am so scared as to how she will respond, but think she will be accepting of this part of me. Will let all my sisters know how it goes.
Here is the email message I sent:
I want to thank you for calling me and trusting me enough to tell me about your girl friend Melissa, it must have taken a lot of courage to tell your parents about this relationship. I want you to know that no matter what, I love you and that will never change. Both you and Melissa will always be welcome in my home. To be truthful, I will be a little uncomfortable at first, like all dads they would like their little girls to grow up, get married and have children. I always believed that in time this would happen, but I want you to know that I support you both. I can only love you and accept you both. I look forward to hearing more about Melissa and someday meeting her.
For myself, I’m neither bisexual or gay, no matter what your mom may say about me. As my signature below shows, I do have a secret to reveal, which I feel whose time has come to tell you, I am a cross dresser and have been to some degree, since my early teens. I think that you have already suspected this, probably your mom said things to you at times or maybe you noticed that there wasn’t a lot of men’s underwear in the wash. The cross dressing doesn’t make me gay, when dressed I feel like the person I should have been, a woman. I was never able to explain these feelings to Laurie, I hope that you will understand and accept this part of me. I will always love you and be your father and will be here to answer any questions you have. And no I am not ever considering changing my sex. I get along with women very well, since I think more like a woman, but dressing as a woman makes it difficult to have a relationship, one on one with woman. If you have any questions you are more than welcome to ask. I am a member of www.crossdressers.com , my screen name is Kimberly51. The site offers me a place where I can explore & discuss my feelings with other people like me, you are welcome to visit and search on my screen name. I have attached some pictures to quell your curiosity.
There is one request I make, don’t tell your mom about this part of me as she will tell everyone and this will not be good. Not knowing how you will react, I am scared and apprehensive letting you know my secret but I feel it is the right thing to do. I love you very much.
Say hello to Melissa for me and let her know that she is accepted by me. I will say goodnight and again, I love you, Kimberly aka Dad