Inspired by tamarav, but I didn't want to hijack her thread. But She got me thinking about being main stream. For those that have seen my pics I dont dress outrageous, no high heel shoes , no fetish stuff , well unless I'm going to a fetish ball. I guess after four years of being out I've grown more adventurous. Last I went out Cuban restaurant, then went out to a place call the Start Light Room , which is a very upscale club. the staff wear tuxs and and cute black dresses. I've gotten to the point were I dont want go just to trans clubs. I've been to plays , the movies dinner as Niya. Ironically I was most nervous going to the liquor store. Basically I want to be able to do any thing I can as a guy as Niya.
Whats interesting is that when I do go to these straight places I get hit on more than when I go to trans places. I don't know if its because they don't know I'm trans or is because the ladies I see at the trans place dress more provocative then I do.