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    Member _Cecilie_'s Avatar
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    CD guidelines together with wife

    In order to improve our relationship with cd'ing we created some guidelines to help us. I thought I'd share with you girls

    - Normal dressing times are mon, tue, fri and sun evening, and saturday night and morning.

    - We share all clothes and makeup

    - Oct1-Mar31 is "CD season" and I get to shave my body except the chest.

    - I can wear whatever underwear and undergarment I'd like as long as it's not visible, anytime.


    This gives me more room to play than I need, but she's cool with it and we'll see how it goes. Of course this will probably be revised several times
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    Shoes, a woman's passion! debbeelee1's Avatar
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    Well Cecilie, it's a good start! You gotta do what you gotta do to keep the SO happy
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    I am sure it willl change over time

    The main thing is you have something you can negioate on if you have too
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    those are good guidelines. I will have to try that approach with my wife. let her negotiate something she can be comfortable with.

    i'll try to bring it up today.

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    [SIZE=2]Those aren't restrictions! In the situation I'm in, that looks like TOTAL FREEDOM!!![/SIZE]
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    [SIZE=2]Tony[/SIZE]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragster View Post
    [SIZE=2]Those aren't restrictions! In the situation I'm in, that looks like TOTAL FREEDOM!!![/SIZE]
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    [SIZE=2]Tony[/SIZE]
    I don't think they are either. I'm happy as can be It's just so we are on the same page sort of. I feel very lucky!
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    I take the wekend off for my wife but still wear my girl panties
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    My one guideline ..... whenever the urge to crossdress hits.


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    Good for you. Me, I have to do it when i get the urge. EVERYDAY!
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    Sorry. I'd be really depressed on April 1. I can't turn it on and off like that.

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    The important thing, as has already been stated, is that both you and your wife are willing to negotiate to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. What could be better than that!
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    congrats

    It sounds like you have a really supportive and understanding wife

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    Yeah that sounds like some good freedoms there. its funny one thing made me laff.. the one rule my wife made was if I wanted to wear it out it had to be mine, not hers. lol so its fun to go shopping she is looseing weight a little faster now so I am getting all her old stuff since they fit me fine. Hey one thing not brought up.. does anyone have a no-cd'ing in the "bedroom" agreement? just wondering. we made one 3 years ago. I am me in bed lol
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    [SIZE=4]It sounds like you have a great level of communication. When you can openly discuss your dressing ans get the limits established it really helps the relationship.[/SIZE]
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    [SIZE=4]All right, if you have to ask..[/SIZE]
    [SIZE=4]My wife and I discussed it, I listened. Basically I am "allowed" to dress 24/7. I listened carefully and when someone asks me where my balls are, I tell them in my wife's purse...[/SIZE]
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    Mostly whenever I want to, but if she says no, that I dont question. Communication works great here
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