I should explain.
Up until recently everything was quite simple. I was a guy who likes to dress up. I wouln't go just anywhere dressed but I fairly often when out in public as Violet. As time passes, however, I find my femme self bleeding over more into my every day life. Things I'm doing now that I definitely wouldn't have done even 2 years ago include:
- I now keep my eyebrows threaded
- My glasses are women's
- My nails are getting long enough to notice, especially since I keep clear polish on them
- ..and try as I might, I can't bring myself to cut them
- Gettin called "ma'am" more when not in drag
I know that most of these things are unremarkable and many of you can say the same, and yet I feel a slow but definite shift in my behavior, and I wonder where it will take me.. when traveling on the gender train going from masculine to feminine, which stop will I finally get off at? I never plan, I just go where the current takes me, so its hard for me to navigate this one.. Anyone else in this situation, or has been? Where are you now?