Who did you tell first

[Toni_Lynn]

Not wanting to threadjack Diane Leah's excellent thread 'Told my sister, but still alone!', I decided to start a thread about who we told first and why.

For me it was my sister back when we were kids. I was 15 and she was 11. I had wanted to tell a girl that I went to school with back as early as 9, but was still very confused.

I guess I told my sister because by that age we had become close and no longer fought like brats. I probably wanted us to be more like sisters and share things that sisters did.

Unfortunately, I did wrong in telling her, because she then told my mum and all hell broke loose yet again (the was becoming a regular occurance every 3 month or so - she'd find more clothes and I'd get humiliated)! In all fairness, I can understnd why she told on me, and I hold no grudges.

Didn't tell anyone for over 10 years after that.

What about the rest of you!

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Toni-Lynn

[Carla4Guage]

Spouse, You didn't have that as an option, definately my spouse.

[trisha59]

Girlfriend at the time now spouse.

[Toni_Lynn]

Spouse, You didn't have that as an option, definately my spouse.

Oh phoo! Sorry! I did the thread via my mobile phone, and missed adding spouse. Drat!

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Toni-Lynn

[Karren H]

My brother... I was 13 or 14 and he was 11.. And we were home alone and I had snuck off to dress like a did all the time.. And he found me locked in the bathroom and knocked on the door so I came out wearing moms things and told him about it.. He didn't seem interested and went off somewhere to play..

A few days later I was out back with my friends and we were picking on him and he started to tell my friends about my hobby.. So I beat the crap out of him right then and there... Brothers always beat each other up.. And I was bigger..

A few years later he got caught by mom wearing our step-sisters things so I take the blame for introducing him to crossdressing though I'm sure he never carried it to the extreme I did.. He's 6' 4" and 250+... I'm the older smaller brother .... Sister.... now!! Hahaha

Never told anyone else till my wife found some of my things...

[Emily Anderson]

A male schoolfriend in 5th grade... Not advisable

[suzypier]

Nobody yet ! You are the first one to know.

[Cynthia_0101]

GF at the time, now my wife.

Cynthia

[Sarah...]

I told my wife first, because I had to - I live with her every day!

Sarah...

[Darlene Dippy]

Spouse, I got that look towards the sky as if to say 'Here we go another expensive hobby'!

[TommiTN]

Can't vote; I haven't told anybody yet.

[Christina2008]

Not told anyone, although last 2 girlfriends knew i wore their underwear.

[Deborah Jane]

Ex wife, thats why she became my ex wife

[MJ]

my wife now ex. then i had to tell my family starting with my sister because my ex was outing me

[jennCD]

My wife,... but that wasn't listed as an option..


jenn

[Sharon]

"Wife" has been added to the poll, and that's the first person I told as well.

[Daintre]

First person I told was my wife...now ex, and she told our families and friends.

[Tomara]

The one and only person I have told is my therapist , with the exception of this forum.

[matrioshka]

My friend Chrissy.

I had been down a while ago, and needed someone to talk to, and I told her. I had just tossed most of my stuff, and when she heard that, she said "why?" with genuine anguish in her voice.

"Lots of people do it, there's nothing wrong with it."

We left it like that. A few months later, I told her I was dressing again. We had one hell of a talk that night. Thanks to her, I've done a lot these last two months.
She's a really good friend. I'm amazed that with all of the problems in her life, she took the time to listen to me.

We help each other. I'm there for her, and vice versa.

Katrina

[Toni_Lynn]

Special thanks to whoever added spouse!

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[SherriePall]

Told my wife first. After many, many years together.

[Carroll]

My first wife-unaccepting
Second wife- unaccepting,
current wife- very accepting

[PamelaTX]

My wife is the only person I've told. It's still too early to tell what she'll ultimately decide about the whole thing. I'm optimistic.

[susan2010]

my girlfriend, now unhappy wife. She asked me the wildest thing I had every done sexually. I told her I had worn a slip, but made it sound like it was something I had only done a couple of times. Big mistake. She kinda liked it and we experimented a few times, but later she turned cold when she discovered how much I liked it.

[Rachel Morley]

My wife is the only person I have told .... my wife on the other hand has told her son, her sister, and a GG friend of hers about me. I felt shy at first but now I'm cool about it