Originally Posted by
Sandra Dunn
You have gone through several purges and each time the need to get in touch with your female side returns, it returns with a stronger passion. You could go full TS, then you might only need to go full time TG without the SRS.
The first thing to do, which you've started already, is to talk it over and over with your SO. If you're not able to seek out a TG knowledgeable counselor then start reading a lot of books concerning TG issues. Many girls dress full time without going through the SRS and have found their place and peace. I would suggest you try going full time non-op TG first for about a year, many counselors will suggest the same thing.
Each of us must find our own place in the TG spectrum and the best thing to do is to take steps not leaps towards your own center of balance. Another thing that will help is to take bellydancing lessons and learn about your body and how it moves. Either way you go you need to know how to be a woman and not just look like one standing there. You need to move, behave, act and think like a woman.
Attitude
HUGS Sandra