Friday my wife texted me not long after I got work wanting to know why I had bras in my sock drawer. I totally freaked, she has been tolerant of me painting my toes and I have been working on the nerve to tell her about my bra thing. I called her and we talked a little bit she said she was ok with it as long as I did not wear make up or dress up. I was still worried when I got home. She assured me she still loved me when I got home and we talked a little more. Saturday she seemed a little in shock but she did some searching online and found out dressing is normal and not weird. She has reminded me this week it is ok to wear a bra if I want but to not open up a can of worms I did suggest some rules so she does not get fed up with it. So I get a weekend day to wear and with a few other small rules, I think it will work for both of us.