You can run across the occasional gg who is not only accepting of our fashion proclivities, but an active participant. Had one once, years ago. Went the hard A route for a while after my last marriage, yes it was easy to score, but the type of women who want a man who treats them like that kinda turn me off. I have yet to meet anyone within an hour of me who I could hang out and dress with or go out but, hope springs eternal.