My goal has been to blend in and be passable. Over the last few days I dressed as in my avatar and went out in day time. Went to two Kohl's, Penny's(plus inside dressing room), Sears, Fred's of Hollywood, and a few other places. I was seen by plenty of people and no one did a double-take, stared or anything. I finally felt relaxed in public, said "Good Morning" to clerks, and didn't perspire like mad(oh, that's right real women don't sweat).........now I need a new goal, but it sure is nice to feel confident.....Michelle