I can only echo what the others have posted. I do hope things turn around for you and you get the love you need from him. He is 100% wrong to deny himself, without very good reasons, that both of you agree on and to ask for another person to join the relationship is way over the top.I have no idea what reason he would have to ask a supportive wife for such permission, but stick to your guns and don't allow that to happen. I know many cders who would love to have a wife like you (myself amoung them) and would consider only your desires in a marriage. You have alot to offer any person in a marriage, so never feel you could be the reason. If you just want to talk to someone, please feel free to pm me anytime.