Last night I was laying in bed with my girlfriend and finally almost told her my secret. Of course at the last minute I chickened out and said nothing. So instead of telling her, I will do the next best thing and just post here. Part of me wants to tell her, but part of me wants to keep this a secret. Like everyone else, I am extremely paranoid over what her reaction will be. One reason that I want to tell her is that I have not dressed up in YEARS and it is drivng me mad. Of course if she is accepting, for the first time in my life I can actually purchase some lingerie, heels, my own make up, and other necessary dressing items. On the other hand, she could just leave me and run screaming to the hills.
I am getting more confused on a daily basis. Almost every day I go online and build a wardrobe of female clothing and shoes, but am never able to complete my purchase. Somehow I feel that maybe I should just show her and not just tell her. Until I am finally able to come out of the closet I will just have to hide my fantasies and stick to my virtual wardrobe.