BeckyAnderson started a wonderful thread which asked why passing is important. Thank you, Becky; you caused me to think.
A new question came to me as I read all the replies. What I saw was that "passing" is not as important as "blending in" is to many of the ladies. Now, that got my attention because I always thought the two were different expressions of the same thing. For me. "passing" is a wonderful ability to simply "blend in". Put another way, "Passing" is the ability to be taken completely for a lady and, so, to assure that I am lost in the faces of the other women.
So, my question is:
Do you distinguish between "passing" and "blending in"? If you do, how do you describe each of the two concepts in terms of your own life?