In visiting the various chat rooms (cd/ts sites mostly but a few mainstream) I have been noticing for quite some time that there seems to be a moderate number of men out there who are seeking a CD type of "lady." And, many for a long-term-relationship.
I am sure there are as many levels and reasons why a man would like to meet up with a CD as there are for reasons why a CD engages in his particular practice/fetish. If anyone could add some serious thoughts to this thread it would be interesting to see if there is a consensus.
I have thought up a few reasons and have actually asked a few men why they prefer the CD type. I got several answers:
Men seek CD's because they act and dress more feminine than most GG women these days.
Men seem to like the retro-fem outfits, the 50's style dresses, the seamed stockings the stiletto heels, and the fussy makeup and hairdos. Women don't dress that way anymore and what once was typical daily dress in that golden age is mainly thought of as "fetish" wear nowadays.
Or are men who seek CD's actually gay and using the ruse of dating a CD to soften the fact that even though they appear to be dating a woman they are actually dating a man. Is this a way for them to satisfy their urges without the mental anguish, i.e. credible deniability?
Or are some men just "experimenting?" (This one I don't buy.)