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    Red face Apology to all GG's

    Hey,

    An open apology to all GG's I've ever been impatient with.

    When I was antsy because you were taking too long to get ready, sorry ! When I rolled my eyes when you checked yourself for the third time in a mirror - I was stupid! Heck, I check 10 times now.....

    When you went back and changed most of your outfit because of what I was wearing and I thought you were being silly - it was ME who was silly !!

    When you said "I'm not walking that way because I have on heels" I should have said, "you are right, which would be the best way to go..."

    ....... too many others to name ......

    My bad, too many times

    I know that none of the women I did these things to are reading this, but maybe I can appease some karmic higher power with my apology ?

    Charlene

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    100% and would like to add my apology as well.

    Em

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    Yeah we CDs should understand why it takes GG's so long to get ready.
    I don't think I ever got impatient verbally, but one time I was getting done up at a friends house, a guy friend, and he yelled "Are you about done?"
    I had to explain to him that makeup and all is not a quick process.

    Another small taste of what it feels like for GG's in the world.

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    I don't think an apology is necessary? you've just realised what fussy lil buggers we can be is all
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    Senior Member vivianann's Avatar
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    I ditto that also. my apoligies to the GG's too.

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    The tables have turned.

    My wife now makes fun of me because it takes me nothing less than 2 hours in the bathroom alone, and then I have to get dressed and put on the makeup and fix my hair....wow if guys only knew..

    I send my appoligies also, until I went all the way and started CDing in ernest I had no clue...Bows to the GGs.

    My wife asked me just the other night, "It sucks to have to shave all the time huh?", lol, I told her yea, but at least you only have to shave your legs and underarms, my lawn is much more to mow.

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    Miss Conception Karren H's Avatar
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    I'm not appologizing for nothing!! I never minded waiting... While she was getting her makeup on I was going through her closet... To see what would look good on me!!
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    ABSOLUTELY - I apologized to my Spouse and to all other GGs because I

    NOW understand and appreciate WHY:

    1) it takes so long to pick out what to wear;

    2) it takes so long to get dressed;

    3) it takes so long to get your hair and your make-up on;

    4) it takes so long to go the restroom;

    5) you can't find things in your purse;

    6) you need me to slow down when you are walking in heels;

    7) you take so much time while shopping

    8) it takes so long to get ready for bed and to get ready in the morning

    I'm truly sorry GGs.

    JoAnne Wheeler

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    Sheila - you are very welcome !

    I didn't mean this thread to be heavy folks, just think about it, we are always talking about how we are not understood.

    Well ... how about when we were not understanding all the GG's!!


    Really, even Karren must have had one time or two when she wasn't looking in that closet but was rolling eyes ! Don't feel bad, just make a little amen's ....

    'give 'em their due, its due


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    [SIZE="3"]Apology accepted... what did you do wrong again? [/SIZE]
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sheila View Post
    Thanks Girls
    Remember this thread when you say how long i take to get ready

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    Great post Charlene!
    Now we know!
    Charlie

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    Hmm--Just a thought. A true woman(or someone who wants to be like one) waits until it gets to the point of:"Lucy, you got some 'splanin' to do." and THEN she apologizes--Maybe!
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Hi GG's,

    I would also like to add my appolizes, I'm slowing learning it takes a long time to look good, the way I wanted you to and half the time never said anything.

    HUGS,
    Alice

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    Me no apologize either...'cos I used to revel in the waiting...

    ...and the watching.

    And I'm the one who would always dawdle around in the store while checking out the sale racks...

    ...and wanted to go window shopping when she wanted to stay home and drink Pinot Grigio and watch a rerun of "House" or Nip/Tuck"!

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    Ahhhh, yes; in contrast to the quote from 'Love Story', love means always having to say you're sorry.
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    I'm not appologizing for nothing!! I never minded waiting... While she was getting her makeup on I was going through her closet... To see what would look good on me!!

    LOL! Alright Karren!
    Cary

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    lol we don't have the waiting for my wife .... she Waite's for me lol..........even prompts me like a hour before we need to be out the door...............

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    You said it hun.
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    And while we're at it:

    No, you don't have enough shoes. I'm quite sure you need more.

    I can see why you need yet another dress/blouse/skirt.

    I already know that with a couple of closets full of nice clothes, you still have nothing to wear.

    I get it.

    Any money found in the laundry is MINE!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    I'm not appologizing for nothing!! I never minded waiting... While she was getting her makeup on I was going through her closet... To see what would look good on me!!

    Karen, your a riot, it always amuses me and shocks me sometimes with your comments,. but please keep them comming. And I want to put my apology too, but I have always been a patient person and very understand of what it take a GG to get ready.
    Striving for acceptance.

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    Yes, there you go .... another benefit of having a CDer as a partner .... real empathy!
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