Hi Ladies -- Many of you have posted that you go out en femme, are known to be a crossdresser, etc. One of my great fears is being found out, since it wouldn't be long before lots of people in my little slice of the world would know. This would have disastrous consequences in the conservative Midwest where I live. It's not very accepting of differences in general.
So -- for those of you whom I envy who are out, where (in general) do you live, size of town, etc., and have you had problems with becoming known? Sometimes I'd just like to lose myself en femme in a big city, but I have no idea if that's safe or not. I cannot look like much more that a guy in a dress (well, and makeup, shoes, etc. All the other fun stuff).
Hugs, Julie