Becky,
I'm sorry to hear about your predicament, and I can relate. I was in this situation about ten years ago, but things have changed since then, and perhaps surprisingly, I still don't go out while dressed. But, I digress.
I guess you need to think about what else you could be doing, and how that would fit in with your current living situation... Inasmuch as whether you want to stir the pot and do something different, or come to terms with what you have now? That's a potentially massive question!
Specifically, I'm sure you have something in mind that you would like to do differently, and perhaps you've even thought about broaching the subject... But, reality dictates that life is all about actions & consequences, so you need to think very carefully about wants versus needs, and only when you have the answer for yourself can you take the next step.