The thought crosses my mind, after an incident last night, in a Bristol pub..
Two of us were there, just interacting with the normal crowd, with the usual bantering.. Several times in the evening we went to the loo (that's restroom for you folk over the pond), individually.
While I was standing in front of the mirror touching up my face and wrestling with my hair, two young (19-20?) girls came in - one proceeded to use one of the two stalls, with the door left open so she could talk to her friend, who also tried to make the best of her hair, alongside me. We talked about her current hairstyle, possible ways it could be cut/styled, whether the white woollen clingy dress she was wearing made her look fat, while her friend, clearly visible in the mirror with her tights around her knees and skirt at her waist, added her opinions to the conversation..
Frankly, as soon as I realised what she was doing, I concentrated on my hair - but neither of these two, nor 99% of those in the pub (one bloke objected when my firend sashayed into his beer) seemed to see us as odd or in any way unusual - indeed, I was accepted (yet again ) as 'Mum'...
Yet everyone clearly realised we were trans - nobody assumed we were genetic females, it just didn't matter?
My friend wrote this recently, on another forum
What I was trying to ask though, is does no one see a difference between what it was like to be trans say 10 years ago and what it's like now? does no one else see the difference in attitude towards us?
Now, I'm no saviour of transkind and I'm nothing special when it comes to looks or attitude, I'm just an average tranny but I'm accepted and protected by a society thats happy to say just be who you want to be.
Ok here's my take on it - I see an accepting society who is happy for me to just be me, I dont see ridicule for what I am, I dont see people chasing me down the streets with big sticks. Some people are curious some just go 'so what lets talk about something interesting', some may try and be funny about it some even try and take the piss but there is never any underlying malice and its really only their way of dealing with an outspoken tranny in their face.
So is it just me, or is society ready for the tranny revolution?