It still amazes me the number of closet cd'ers who still take a risk.
There was recently a thread about others finding out after you had gone, and another about those who rush to hide away their alter ego when their SO/partner arrive back.
For those who are living in the land of narnia (that mystical place at the back of your closet), are you really living in fairy tale land with no conception of the real world.
So many things can go wrong whilst you are having your little bit of "her" time, from a sudden illness to a bad fall to the worst of the worst.
For the worst of the worst, you will not hear the backlash of your trips to Narnia, for those who don't suffer the worst of the worst, I wonder what will feel worse to your SO/partner, the fact that you have had a mishap, or the realisation that they have been living with a stranger.