Well, CW, I have to give you "mad props" (as the kids today say - hehe) for continuing to bring up very interesting and insightful topics. I don't think you're intentionally trying to stir the pot in a bad way and I'm enjoying the discourses.
I'd like to challenge the notion that crossdressing isn't something with which some people are born. If that were the case, how can it be explained that some people start to crossdress at a very early age? For myself, I remember desiring to dress like a girl as early as 4 or 5 years of age when I first started taking responsibility for dressing myself. I don't consider myself to be a transsexual; I have just always preferred women's clothing and the feelings I have when wearing them. That is to say, I don't want to
be a woman, I just want to
look like a woman and, hopefully,
feel like a woman. I don't see how that can be considered "an acquired thing."
If CW is in the same camp, quitting as some have suggested isn't as simple as some have suggested. Perhaps if he were to move to a deserted island where there's no television or printed media so that he won't see advertisements for female-related clothing or products and where there aren't any women to fuel any desires, then he might have a fighting chance at quitting. After all, like Hannibal Lecter said:
"He covets. That is his nature. And how do we begin to covet, Clarice? Do we seek out things to covet? Make an effort to answer, now. …We begin by coveting things we see everyday…"
I will agree that CW won't find a way to quit by visiting this forum but he will gain excellent knowledge and insight here. If that helps him to come to an understanding about himself and what crossdressing means to him and that leads to a solution for him that helps him quit, then bravo! My guess is that the more knowledge and understanding he can gain, the better-equipped he is to deal with whatever issues he has with crossdressing.