What is it about middle age that causes so many of us to become aware of our transgender issues so acutely. Then more importantly, why do we find the need to tell our SO's, alter our bodies, walk out the door, or join this forum?
I know a lot of us don't do some of these things, but what is it about middle age that causes us to begin accepting our female side? I have noticed so many as they hit middle age realize that they should have been born a woman and begin taking steps to correct it. I have also noticed a lot of men in middle age finally decide they have kept the secret long enough and tell their SO. Then the ones who are in the closet, venture out to find this forum. Why?
A lot of us come to know ourselves at an earlier age, but a lot of us wait until middle age. I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed a pattern and figured out the cause. I came out of the closet at age 47. I walked out the door for the first time at 48. I don't know why now I choose to get a backbone and stand up for who I am inside.