A few years ago i inherited a house with a small guest house behind.In order to save money I rented the front house out and I lived in the guest. The guy who I rented the house to was a few years older than me, and str8 as an arrow and in my opinion.. a HUNK. ( sorry, about that,don't want to make anyone queasy lol) We did however become good friends and spent hours talking and hanging out together.We layed out by the pool together, ate some meals together, movies, running...totally as friends. He knew all about me and my desires, and never had a problem with any of it. i guess I had a crush on him, but never attempted anything overt, because I figured that he wasn't interested in me in that way. A couple of times he would do stuff like give me a hug if I was upset, or take my hand to help me up. Just before he moved out we went to see a movie and on the way out he took my hand to guide me around some people that were in the way, and he actually held my hand for a while as we walked. Anyway, after about a year he transferred jobs and moved to a different city.
This morning while I am sitting here messing around with you guys (girls I mean) and my phone rings.. it's him. he says he's in town and wants to know if he can stop by and see me. Sure I say when? He says.. how about 30 minutes. I am looking around, and the place and there's piles of laundry all over the floor, sheets are off the bed,dishes in the sink, and I look like crap. No make-up,hairs a mess, coffee breath. It's Saturday, It's house cleaning day,it's jeans and sweatshirt day! So i ask how long he's going to be in town and he says a week or more. I asked where he was staying and he said his parents. i put off seeing him until this evening, but before we hung up I told him that if he wanted to he could stay here....He said.. we can talk about that when I see you. Now I am wondering if I should have even offered?