Whose decision is it?

[Emily Anderson]

And this one's for Kelli, another comment from Sarayu on page 123.

"When you choose independence over relationship, you become a danger to each other. Others become objects to be manipulated or managed for your own happiness. Authority, as you usually think of it, is merely the excuse the strong use to make others conform to what they want."

Hear hear!

Wow, was that your own quote? Pretty profound.