Quote Originally Posted by LA CINDY LOVE View Post
I agree with you Paulaluvssz8 the person who is cding is making the choice, if the person feels his cding is causing problem with his marriage and family he needs to make a choice.....if your wife come to you and say I try to live with you and your dressing but I just can not do it any more and gives you the ultimatum you need to make a choice.

A married CD if given a choice between his family and dressing he will choice his family why......... like Paulauvssz8 said he chose to LOVE his wife and family.
Let's try this again. The husband makes a choice to cd (assuming it is a choice, it may not be)---he WANTS to STAY---then the wife says either quit cding or leave---therefore he is the only one making a decision here???? There is no decision by the wife? I don't get it, I guess.