To this point I haven't cared about "passing". I was actually very happy with the fact that I was "special". Of course, I have only been out to places that would be friendly to TGs like clubs and restaurants in the "gay" part of town. There people expect to see someone like me and it doesn't weird them out.
Now I am ready to push it to the next level. I want to start shopping and going out to restaurants with the general public.
Here is my issue...
I really like to dress in sexy stuff. Even my casual stuff isn't going to "blend in". I'm sure you've seen people (or maybe you didn't) that are just really plain. Plain old hair, clothes, etc. They don't draw attention because, honestly, they aren't that attractive.
I don't want to be "plain" but I also don't want to have a flashing light over my head that says "look at me".
I'm 6'2" tall so I'll never not stick out (excuse the double negative). So do I just resign myself to that fact and then dress the way I want to? I mean I do have a very feminine body and don't think I'm that bad looking. I have some girly jeans (kinda tight), some designer tshirts or nice blouses and I just bought my first pair of flats that are kinda the ballerina style shoes with bows on the toes (of course they are leopard print).
I think I would rather try to be the good looking "almost" chick that doesn't blend in than the plain "almost" chick that still doesn't blend in.
What do you think?
Kisses,
Allie
