Over a year ago my sons found out about my crossdressing. They don't talk to me about it, but the middle one talks with my wife. The other day my middle son told my wife that he thought I was gay. Why? Because I crossdress. Some of his gay friends told him that I must be gay and hiding it.
So today I had a talk with him and told him a little about crossdressing. He didn't want to talk about it, and tried multiple times to change the subject. The biggest point that I was able to make was that I wasn't gay. Most crossdressers are actually hetrosexual, but most of them are too scared to come out of the closet. I even told him that a good portion of them are married with kids like me. All he did was try to blow me off. I know what that means. He doesn't believe me because he just feels that I am in denial.
It is just so frustrating that the stereotypes win out and we can tell the truth and the stereotype is still true.
