My wife's comfort level is to accept, but not participate. At times I can fully dress at home, but she usually will stay upstairs. I often wear some make up and she will tolerate that in my presence, with a comment or two in a non hurtful way. On a rare occasion she will come downstairs to watch TV with me when I'm not overly dressed. Wearing levis, forms, wig and make up in a casual top is more tolerated then a dress, heels, etc. I can at times go out fully dressed, but on my own. I will go to Diva Las Vegas for a full week of dressing, but again on my own with her acceptance. My exploration of my female side is growing and is OK as long as I keep things in balance.