Terms of endearment such as "hon", "dear", "sweaty", or "honey" does not bother me in the least. I know GG's use these terms when waiting on customers in stores and restaurants all the time. Even some men use them from time to time. I was not talking about such common words as those. But oddly enough, I had not thought about it, but I would be put off if used by another CD addressing me. It would not be a biggy, but that's caring the roll many of us play being CD's, a little to far and can be deemed crossing a line. That is unless that CD was a close friend of mine and used it in some context that may seem appropriate.
My issue is with specifically the words I mentioned in my opening statement and question.
As pointed out, even GG's do not use these terms. It's kind of like the out there flamboyant gay guy with exaggerated gestures and mannerisms that to me is like them trying to be feminine and in a way, it insults women.
Using the term "hugs" or even the physical act of hugging man to man or CD to CD is way off base as to what my original post is about. Even calling each other she, her, girl friend, lady, or referring to ourselves as women is NOT what I am talking about.
So just to clarify, my topic is about the use of kissy kissy, smooches, wet kisses, kisses, and maybe a few more over the top salutations that for the most part, even a GG never uses. But it creeps me out when other CD's use them here.
EDIT: I was posting my post when badtranny posted at the same time.
Thank you Melissa! You get it! And thank you for reminding me of a few more inanities uttered by men when they are pretending to be women.
I agree with you 100%
