I know I am. I've been married and divorced (once each), and have had a GF for over six years. I love living alone and CD'ing to my heart's content.
My GF knows, and doesn't care for it. Consequently, we don't spend a lot of time together. I'm enamoured and so totally involved with my enjoyment of crossdressing that I've made it a priority in my life. I'm happy doing it every day after work, and on my days off.
My daughters are now adults, living with their husbands in their own places. I've never told them I CD, as I don't feel they need to know.
This is all about me, and what I want out of life.
So. the question posed is... are you a selfish crossdresser?
