Hey everyone a random thought just popped into my head. When I was browsing this forum I noticed that some people have had very varying results when they were coming out as a crossdressers to their significant other. I personally do not have much relationship experience but I have a theory. I am thinking that your partners initial reaction and how they act afterwards will depend quite dramatically on how they find out.

For example I think someone who was caught cross dressing by their girlfriend or wife would get a much worse reaction than someone who is truly comfortable with their dressing, is able to effectively communicate why they crossdress and pass it off as not a big deal, and someone who told their partner fairly early in the relationship. However as I said before I don't have much to back it up. So here are my questions for you.

Does your significant other know you crossdress?
How did they find out if they do know?

And please share any stories of how you delt with crossdressing in your present and past relationships.