Like many people, I've been crossdressing for years. I never told my wife before we married, and it wasn't an issue (the desire died away due to new marriage, job, dog and child) until a few years ago. I told her, she cried. She eventually agreed to simply tolerate it, but never wanted to see me dressed...easy enough.

After another move, I was at school and purged (I lost all my good Lane Bryant purchases...very sad!) and quit cold turkey for a long time. Annnnd...I'm back.

Has anyone had to re-tell their SO about their crossdressing, and if so, how do you do it?