On several occasions, I've been out places especially when we go shopping in one of the larger cities near us when I saw someone I thought was a t-girl: a CD or a TS. I wasn't sure how they'd react if I just went up to them and said, "Wow, you look great. If I wasn't a t-girl myself, I might not have realized that you're one of us."

So how would you react, and any ideas on what's best to say? I'd appreciate any comments, especially from newbies.