So we organised a night of me dressing tonight. My wife is not comfortable with it but said she would make space for me.
Thinking it through I would not have got out of it what I wanted as I would have always had her feelings in the back of my mind.
Leading up to it I suggested we catch up on some TV we hadn't watched and recorded.
She was confused and said we can't because of what I was going to do but I said I didn't want to as i wouldn't get out of it what I would need knowing she was feeling uncomfortable about it.
Well.
I am gutted I have not got the Tammy time I was hoping for but at the same time I'm feeling positive as her reaction to me 'understanding' how she felt 'for the first time'. Has led to a positive evening.
I supoose I just want to let you know that even though I need my time. Sometimes giving that up might just help in the long run.
Who knows?
Love to all,
Tammy
