So, I’m 39, and married happily (for the most part). My wife accepts that this is a part of me and is accepting to a point. She attended first event with me, and we make time for Eve to get out of her box here and there. We have discussed opening our marriage to accommodate the fact that this has always been sexually rooted for me, and that Eve does nothing for her in the bedroom. (Not her thing, we tried.) We have agreed that the only way to find out how important that experience is, is to try it. Due to our large family, making time is not so simple, so the “standard model” of going out, meeting people and letting connections grow is not ideal. I tried putting some ads out there, but got little response (1 that ghosted as soon as “married but it’s cool” came up). Any advice? Similar experiences? Magical personal ad template with guaranteed success? Anything? Thanks in advance,
-Eve
