I hear it so much it's almost a cliché: "CDing doesn't break any couples that didn't already have problems to begin with." When I hear this, two thoughts come to mind.

First, don't all relationships have some problems? Good relationships don't have major problems, but every relationship faces issues here and there that need to be tackled.

Second, is this always the case? CDing has tried Sobe's and my relationship, and this is the closest we've ever come to breakup (but we've got plenty of will left in us . Before I realized the extend of my CDing though, the relationship was pretty dang solid.

Is it really as simple as "CDing doesn't destroy relationships that aren't already stressed?"