I'm quite confused.
My wife told me that's she thinks it 'disgustting' whenever she sees me dressed (at all), but, still claims to be 'supportive'. This doesn't make sense to me.
A little background. Thursday night, we were getting ready to go out (the kids weren't home) and I was trying to decide on which of my mens dress shoes to wear. Since the dress pants I had on were a bit long, I put on my black boots w/ a 3" heel and jokingly said to my wife that they went better with my pants (due to their length) better than my shoes.
That did it. She starts saying 'Why do I always do this to her' and she thinks it 'disgusting', but, won't say why. We 'talk' for a few minutes and she claims to still be 'supportive'.
The 'disgusting' part actually sounds like something her mother would say. My wife confided in her several years ago, when she needed someone to talk too. My wife has also lost a lot of weight and quit several meds since this past spring. Her mother has been telling her I just want her to lose weight so I can wear her clothes. This is where I could easily see her mother saying 'that's just disgusting'.
What confuses me the most is that at times she seems to be OK/tolerant of it. Last weekend I ordered some clothes on line, a top, bra and a few skirts and then made a second order with several items for her. She didn't appear 'disgusted' at all when I told her about it or placed the order for her stuff (and my bra) with her. Further, one package came today, she looked in itand pulled out a skirt, held it up to herself (we're the same size now), said she liked it and might have to borrow it.
Sorry for the rant, but, can someone truly be disgusted by something and still be supportive of it???
Thanks,
Rachel Jean