Perhaps mine is a strange case, perhaps more normal than I suppose.
I am not attracted to men whether in male mode or in femme mode. Of that I am 100% sure. I do, however, fantasize about being with a man sexually. I cannot figure that one out, it is one for Freud I suppose, but let us proceed.
During my 25 year long term relationship that ended in Feb 2007 I was never unfaithful to my ex (who is a woman). Up to that point I had also never had any sexual experience with a male, in fact I had only had sex with two women, my ex and my first wife.
Since my split, I decided that I would finally find out how I really felt about my fantasy of having sex with males. Practicing safe sex of course, I had to know and so I tried it out three times, once with a cross dresser and twice with two different men. All of the experiences were a bust, while I enjoyed their company as fellow human beings, sexually it did nothing for me.
So here comes the weird part, I still fantasize about being dressed as a woman and having sex with males. In fact I continued to post at various sites with various configurations of fantasy. I figure that I must have blown a fuse in my brain wiring because it makes no sense to me that I would now have had three experiences that showed me I don't enjoy it and I am totally not attracted to men, I am only attracted to women and yet I would continue to fantasize about it and continue to have profiles regarding these types of relationships.
It took a big kick in the butt by a someone on this board whom is very dear to me to finally realize the insanity of my thinking and behaviour. I have pulled down all of the profiles except ones that are about CD (platonic) friendship and have stopped all these silly behaviours. Some fantasies are best left alone, left to the realm of fantasy.
I also realize that I have gone through a lot of major events in the last few years that have completely warped and twisted my mind in ways that have made me behave in ways that I never would have before (the death of my father, uncle, father-in-law and best friend, the end of a 25 year marital relationship and the emergence of my cross dressing and losing my job - all in the span of a couple of years). I am only now starting to regain my sanity though I suspect some therapy is in order too.
So I suppose technically speaking, by virtue of having tried this I guess I am/was bi-sexual. At least I know that the reality does not live up to the fantasy and that sexually I only enjoy being with women.
So the long answer is no...and now I know from experience the answer is still ... no.
Huggs
Melissa