I'm thrilled and excited to see this thread, it shows the true potential of this forum. Need Help and Other could we maybe have nicer names to call you's ?
As for advice to the questions I can't add as I was bought up in a different way and can-not relate to the issues. I would like to say though to OTHER you are one gifted VEGEMITE to have the mum you have, TREASURE HER. Finaly you are getting advice from the best we have here, LUCKY GIRLS, good luck to you.