Wonderful story! Congratulations! This is exactly why we need to go at the SO's pace around this issue. I think most non-Cd's have this Drag Queen caricature in the back of their minds and to me, it's an ugly one. The reality sinks in only very slowly and that's what happened for you, you lucky, lucky girl! You give us all hope. Have fun and give your wife a hug for all of us.
