I dont know if I am the only one with this problem but here it goes. I get out dressed to the local gay bars about 4 times a month. I have been given advice at least 3 times in the past months by gay men only. The first time Mr. Advice told me I needed to wear a lighter color wig because the one I wore was too harsh. The second time another (he was a drag show person) told me he could help me with my makeup. I did not know there was something wrong with the way I had it. Just a couple weeks ago another gay guy told me the dress I was wearing made me look like a grandma. Dont get me wrong, all these people were nice in how they gave me advice but I did not want it in the first place. I have never had a lesbian woman or a straight person give me clothing or makeup tips. Why is it gay men feel it is their duty to counsel us? Has anyone else had this happen?
Debbie